I need urgent help

[DarkCrusnik]

Hello guys, I KNOW this isnt the right place, nor time, nor site, nor anything, but I really need help, as soon as possible
the thing is, im facing a difficulty currently, and I have two choices
Either sleeping on a bed of gold and breaking my back,
or sleep on the ground, yet be comfy
I want to ask you guys, where you live, is it easy to find a full time job? Which pays good enough to pay rents? I have a highschool degree only, and is willing to work 70 hours a week
please, im sorry if I violated a rule or two, or probably al l of them, but I really
really need help
thank you for understanding

[takenoko]

Urr, are you looking for a job? It might help if you specify where you live.

It's pretty hard to find a full time job where I live. It's fairly crowded. I mean, it's certainly doable, but you'd probably need to work your way up.

[DarkCrusnik]

I want to leave where I live, I live in middle east, I need to go, NOW
anywhere
thanks

[Lunagel]

Mmmm, yeah, you're asking a discussion forum about Japanese children's tv for help regarding an unspecified problem in an vaguely broad region of the globe. You'll forgive us if our advice is less than stellar.

I'd first try to see if you can talk this out with someone you are close to like a parent or friend or teacher. If there's no one you trust in your area, try googling to find a local hotline you can call that is relevant to your issue (drugs/abuse/sex/suicide/?). If you are in particularly bad area, then you can try to apply for refugee status to another country, but that tends to take a long time.

[DarkCrusnik]

The thing is, there no hot lines here, there is nothing, no one would support me for trying to leave a house full of abuse, I want to travel, work myself out , and find a way to love myself

[DarkCrusnik]

Like im really sorry, but I dont have anywhere else I can ask, my hands are tied

[Lunagel]

You've got internet, clearly. Use google and try and find something to help you. We can't do anything.

[BuraddoRun]

Maybe reach out to a group like this?

http://www.samaritanspurse.org/our-ministry/contact-us/

[takenoko]

You definitely have my sympathies, but this is so far beyond anything I've ever had to deal with in my life. I think Luna has a good idea. Maybe there's some red cross or some other volunteer organization where you can take shelter in the meantime?

If you really have no options other than to leave and create a new identity for yourself, then please do so. It won't be easy, but I think it'll be better than spending your life in abuse. No one deserves that.

[hinomars19]

An idea of how old you are may help

[Digifiend]

And exactly what country you're in.

[jamcalx]

Maybe you can find your way to Columbus, Ohio in the USA. There plenty of jobs constantly hiring you can easily get 40+ full time work at twelve US dollars an hour starting out and aid services to help you find a small apartment if your make your way here. you could even try Columbus State Community College once you get settled in and feel ready. I am praying for your, dude. God bless you and keep you strong!

[slyphnier]

if you thinking out of your country (moving) legally i dont think there any easy and fast way ... i mean to move to another country u need sort of work-visa right ?
well i did school abroad, and for that i need almost a year to take care many permission/registration
so above the many things, you need living visa to stay in other country

well u can move to anywhere "illegaly"
but dont expect it will be good life, because most of time u get cheap-hard-labor work (like construction work)
and u also cant freely walking on street without worried, because if u get caught by polices and asking ur identity u is going deported
*heard from friend that illegal moved in to japan
if u ever watch kaiji season 2 ? that sort of those work all u gonna get, i mean paid in big country is high, so they use illegal immigrants to get cheap cost

so the most realistic/best way is find volunteer organization in your area
maybe church or religion places can also help you
be strong!

[CrazyDreamer]

Getting out of the middle east is hard; a lot of people want to do it, so borders are strictly patrolled. I assume that you don't have the resources to sneak through Turkey into the EU and can't/won't take the high chance of death (or simply failure) at sea. Let's break it down into steps; you may find it easiest to first escape to a shelter in your city (or the nearest city), then get help moving to a country in the region with relatively safe, secular legal administration and a good relationship with the West (e.g., Kuwait), and there find work and talk to various embassies and aid groups until you finally find somewhere willing to take you in.

The advice about aid groups is sound. A woman fleeing an abusive household in the middle east is likely to be able to gain sympathy from a lot of Western aid groups and any local women's groups. They might not be able to get you into another country directly, but they can provide support while you work towards the next step.

[DarkCrusnik]

I see...thank you guys alot,you really helped, also sly, cheap pay and constant fear is easier than abuse
thanks jamcal, ill check it out
take; I think id take your advice and change my name, and leave home or something, thanks alot guys